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A Taurus Minority Girl in a Mainstream Marrying Type of World

Views from the unmarried Taurus minority woman on marriage and stuff.

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I think I am too Taurus. I have also (willfully) never been married. I hate that people have said I’m a runaway bride over the years. Even though to every stinging phrase or expression there’s usually a shred of truth to it.

I’ve been engaged twice with a ring and asked to be married to 4 times total. One I was a homewrecker but I didn’t know it and when I found out definitively I told the wife to warn her and told her we could do better. I thought she’d be all, “Yeah! Girl power!” But she snapped at me, blocked me, and got more loyal to her husband.

I have literally never felt so shitty in my entire dating life. When the girl who got cheated on takes the side of the cheater over the person caught in the middle who tries to warn her.

Yeah that messed with me. I definitely still need ongoing therapy for that one.

Shudders.

Taurus on Respect & Loyalty

Anyway. So I’m a typical Taurus in a lot of ways. My tolerance for bullshit is pretty high. I like emotional stability although I can also roll with the punches as long as someone is keeping it 100 with me and…

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정유선, Retired Soloist @rccltalent, LSW, PhD Student
정유선, Retired Soloist @rccltalent, LSW, PhD Student

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